Improving Hellolyndsey Survey Poll

I'm constantly worried about my content and whether it is inspirational, enthusiastic enough, original, and captivating. For the past 2 years or so, I feel like Hellolyndsey has lingered in this strange area. My blog feels boring to me. Uninspired. Unorganized. It's hard for me to come up with new ideas and have refreshed content. There's something I'm doing wrong, but I can't figure out how to fix it. That's where I need your help. Has Hellolyndsey become boring? Or am I just overthinking it?

I've created this poll to figure out which areas of my blog need tweaking, which needs to be featured more, basically whatever needs to be done in order to bring that spark back over to my little corner of the internet. Lets put the happy back in Hellolyndsey!


Treating Chronic Styes

treating chronic styes{{sty (or) stye2
noun: stye
  1. an inflamed oil gland on the edge of your eyelid, where the lash meets the lid. It appears as a red, swollen bump that looks like a pimple. It is often tender to the touch.}}

Hello dolls! For some reason, I have had styes frequently since I was a little girl. So frequent that I was averaging around 5-6 styes every month.. most of the time on both eyes, top and bottom! I couldn't even begin to tell you about my teenage years and how many times I threw out precious eye makeup (even brand new!) because I couldn't figure out what was going on with my eyes. Over the years, after numerous amounts of researching lol, I have learned how to self-treat these styes to where they aren't as painful and heal up faster. These methods are tried and true, to the point to where now I typically get only 2 styes every month or so. Here's my tips to treating chronic styes!
baby shampoo
Wash Your Eyes Nightly With Baby Shampoo
Try to wash your eyelids/lashes with baby shampoo as often as possible. I like Johnson's because it plainly says on the bottle "no more tears" and gentle to the eyes. It works great and always makes my eyes feel refreshed afterwards.
visine totality
Keep Your Eyes Hydrated
Whenever I get a ruthless stye, I like to use eye drops daily to help lubricate my eyes to keep them from being itchy/even more red than they already are when infected. I normally use any eye drops I have on hand.

Keep Your Fingers Out Of Your Eyes!
Do not touch or pop the stye! 1. That's gross. 2. Owww!! Your hands are one of the germiest places on your body, which can harvest serious bacteria to your vulnerable eyes. Plus your fingers have natural oils that will also help to stop up the stye even worse and may cause even more break outs! Wash your hands as often as possible and if you must itch or rub your eyes, use a soft cloth and gently pat them. Your eyes are such a vital source of life- we take them for granted so easily. Take the extra minute to give your eyes the care they need.
stye medicine
Drugstore Stye Medicines
If your stye is annoyingly itchy or painful, you can always buy over the counter ointments from almost any local drugstore. It's even helpful to ask a pharmacist which one would best suit your needs and which one they recommend.
oil free facial wash
Wash Your Face Nightly With An Oil Free Cleanser
Keeping your skin oil free is a great way to keep yourself from having excess oil around your eyes.
products for styesProducts I Use That Help Heal Styes
Only one of these products is specifically made to work on styes, but all of them work pretty darn amazing when it comes to helping get rid of them!
*Johnson's baby shampoo (travel size)
Johnson's baby shampoo is incredible and has never once hurt my eyes. I use a tiny amount on a cloth or cotton ball with warm water to gently wash the oil away from my eyes. (plus it's an awesome makeup remover and brush cleaner!)
*Visine Totality Multi-Symptom Eye Drops
Eye drops help keep my eyes hydrated to keep myself from itching or rubbing them even more.
*Cotton Swabs
Whenever I get styes I normally do anything I can to prevent myself from touching my eyes. They're perfect for applying stye medicine just where you need it, or for swabbing some baby shampoo in a specific area of the lid.
*Stye Medication
The stye medicine I currently have doesn't work anywhere near as good as others I've had in the past, so I'm not recommending it lol, but I do recommend you try an over-the-counter ointment. Check your local Walgreens to see what kind of stye medicine they have in stock and if anything don't buy *Stye* brand.
*Olay Foaming Face Wash for Sensitive Skin
This oil free face wash is absolutely incredible! I have excessively dry skin, but this doesn't irritate my skin and it really does remove all the excess oil from the day without drying out my skin even more. If I can remember to do this nightly I normally have no stye problems (or breakouts!).


How I Overcame Severe Nail Biting

My nails have always been crap. Straight up lol. They are brittle, paper thin, and ALWAYS peeling. I seriously believe I have the worst nails anyone could ever possibly have. No joke there. I think this made my nails the perfect target for biting. Since they always looked like crap anyway, I decided that biting them wasn't such a bad thing.

Growing up I was definitely a tomboy. I always had my hands in something, whether I was climbing trees or digging in the red clay to make mud pies. As I got older (and became fully aware that I was, indeed, a female) I remember numerous sleepovers/slumber parties where the dreaded I'll-paint-your-nails-you-paint-mine always had to happen. I felt uncomfortable and easily embarrassed about my horrible nails. Most of the time I'd find a way to just paint mine myself so no one else had to look at them haha. I just never knew what to do with them to make them look pretty.

Once I started blogging, I became even more aware of my nails and they way they looked in outfit photos. I was embarrassed by the fact that it was so obvious that my nails were chipped, bleeding, and just generally looked rough. These photos of my nails are throughout the years of blogging on Hellolyndsey. As you can clearly see, my nails were in terrible shape. I painted them to try to keep them a little prettier and to try to stop picking at them, but never could completely commit myself to it. I'd stop for maybe a couple of days, sometimes a week, but then go right back to it. I have anxiety like you wouldn't believe, so any possible stressful situation, I was tearing away at my nails. The worst part about it is even if I had no nails to bite or pick at, I tore the skin off around my nails until they bled. This is something I have a constant battle with, because even though I don't bite my nails anymore, I still pick at the sides of my fingers. (Update: I've even stopped doing that too!)

I think the first thing that helped me overcome nail biting was beautiful nail art. I brought myself to the conclusion which do I want more, broken/brittle nails the rest of my life or am I going to do something about it? Since my nails were so brittle and peeling so bad, I knew growing them out wasn't an option. So, I decided to train myself with acrylic nails. BAD IDEA. Let me tell you this. Keeping up acrylic nails is expensive, painful, and sometimes embarrassing! The nail tech looked at me and said "your nails are reeeeally bad." ..duh! Like I didn't know this already? Haha. I kept acrylic nails on for 4 months straight, having them done once a month. This actually really helped curve the urge to pick the polish off my nails and strayed me away from biting them because they were too hard to break. Once I got to the point that I thought I could go without the acrylics and not bite my nails, I had them removed. To my surprise, my nails had grown incredibly long under the acrylic nails! But they were flimsier than printer paper. I immediately went and bought Sally Hansen Hard As Nails Miracle Cure and painted my nails religiously with it for a month. But my nails were just far too damaged to repair and still ended up biting the back down below the quick. It was heartbreaking!

So what did I do? I made myself determined and dedicated to stop biting my nails.

Mind over matter
It's actually funny to see that I'm saying this on my blog, because I hate that saying. But it's true. You have to want something with everything in you to actually get results. Just like getting fit or going to school or moving up on the job scale. Switch your brain on to the fact that you are deciding to make a really good change to your body.

Buy a nail strengthener
Peeling edges, weak distals, snags, and ingrown nails are just biting mishaps waiting to happen. Kind of like a monster zit calling your name in your sleep saying "pop me.. pop me! You know you want to.." when we all know that popping zits is a sin in the beauty world. From my own personal experience, I have never found a nail strengthener that totally cured my nails. But I finally found one that did the closest job to it. O.P.I Nail Envy is the best nail strengthener I have ever used. It was a bit steep for my price range at $10 for one bottle on Amazon, but at this point I didn't care anymore. I wanted something that worked. As soon as I got it in the mail, I prepped my nails and slathered two coats of this on my nails. By the end of the 3rd day, my nails had started growing! I have been using it every time I paint my nails for the past 4 months and now? My nails are stronger than they have ever been in my whole life.

Paint your nails religiously
Chipped nail polish has always been disastrous for me. Once my polish started chipping, I was picking away at my nails until I'd peeled all my nail polish off. When you see the first sign of chipping in your nail polish, repaint them as soon as you possibly can. If you're not a fan of painting your nails so often (I was painting mine every 4 to 5 days) a good way to cope with chipped nails is a thick coat of glitter polish. It'll add tons of sparkle without noticing the temptation that lies underneath.

Try doing nail art
Nail art is so awesome and beautiful!! It can also be a real pain in the butt. You don't necessarily have to be good at drawing or painting to do nail art. There are simple nail arts that everyone can try and it'll be so fun to show off your hard work once it's done! Polka dots were my favorite go-to when I first started doing nail art. Then I learned how to make hearts, then stripes, and so on. There are plenty of tutorials around the interwebz on some awesome nail art, and I even have a couple here!

Post pictures of your nails on Instagram/Twitter/Facebook
When you share pictures of your nails, not only does it help you feel confident about the way your nails look, but it also makes you feel proud that you're doing such a good job at keeping your bad habits at bay. I post pictures of my nails on my Instagram almost every time I paint them now. It's also a fun way to keep track of your progress without openly saying it. ;)

It's okay to have slip ups
There were times that I'd slam my hand into something and one nail would break into a wonky jagged edge. For the first month I grew my nails out, I cried every time I broke a nail! Poor Josh.. lol! I'd usually just bite the rest of the nail off and start over, but I learned a better way to handle this would be filing the jagged edge to make the nail smooth again. BUT, if you keep slipping up too much, I recommend you watch this video on just how nasty/unhealthy it is for you to bite your nails. Just sayin'!

File, file, file away
Never clip your nails. Ever! When you want to shorten your nails you have so much more control when you file them. It takes way longer but I promise it will look so much better. And I don't mean saw at them like a hacksaw.. lol we're not Bob the Builder over here! Watch a few Youtube tutorials on how to properly file your nails and you'll have fresh nails in no time.

Chew gum!
If all else fails in a super stressful situation, chew the heck out of some gum! I've got 2 packs in my purse right now for those just in case moments.

Well, I hope that this post helps you on your journey to recovering from nail biting! It took me so long, but I finally did it and I can't express the joy I have for having pretty nails now. Giving it up is so worth it!